THe people we go out with often differs from time to time.. But how do we actually differentiate true friends..
What we always tell ourselves is that THEY are friends no matter male or female, good or bad. But the real truth is most of these FRIENDS are very opportunistic and unforgiving.
Many things happen along the way as we grow up, sad and happy at an equal state but do look out.. Try reminisce what we have been thru.
When we are happy, we will find friends out there laughing along with us and laughing their hearts out.. But when our sky falls down on us , how many of THOSE FRIENDS actually care enough to ask??????
That's always the case, most of the people we know out there would'nt be actually considered as friends but more of acquantaince.
Acquantaince are those people we get to know at 1 point of time at a certain place and we hang out with them but as life goes on they will slowly fade in our memories or we will slowly fade in theirs.
Most of these people couldn't care less about our welfare. But the lord has make some of us in a way that we do not mind making sacrifices for others whether they are pure aquaintaince or true friends. at the end of the day what we look for is the smile on their faces and that will bring more joy to us than anything else in the world.
However, we often hurt our friends without knowing and we thought they would understand but a simple sorry could actually make things better. Deep down inside, we actuallyy want to say sorry but our ego stops us from doing so. At the end of the day our friends will move on to think that we do not care about their feelings and we are just treating them as trash.
To think of it, from me personnaly.... I AM SORRY to all my friends out there if i ever wronged u. Ego is a thing very hard to control and that is why it has been controlling me for such a long time now but i doubt it will ever leave.
FRIEND AND AQUANTAINCE OLD OR NEW CLOSE OR DISTANT..... IT HAS BEEN NICE THAT OUR PATH ONCE CLASHED AND GETTING TO KNOW U IS WHAT I CONSIDER AS MY PRIVILEGE ...
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- ok... time to change... i'm still the typical chinese man you'll see ont he streets but this time... more sloppish as ever but i'll be here to tempt your taste buds and challenge ur stomach besides challenging your faith... hahahahha.....
2 comments:
Friends are to be used without doubt. If not, how come you and I make friends? There are time when you really need their assistance in getting things done in your own way. How many time do we appreciate friends that do help us when we need them? Those who are really sincere and loyal to you are those whose accompany you through the ups and downs of your life. Do this species still exist? Well, grab them and appreciate them when you have the chance. Chances come by once. If you are late in realizing such true friends, you be left alone to endure your own sorrow. All the best :)
Good friends are like stars... you can't always see them, but you know they're always there...
I wish you many wonderful friends who will always be there for you through thick and thin... and when you find such friends, remember to show them how much you appreciate them :)
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